All their lives Nath had understood, better than anyone, the lexicon of their family, the things they could never truly explain to outsiders: that a book or a dress meant more than something to read or something to wear; that attention came with expectations that–like snow–drifted and settled and crushed you with their weight. Celeste Ng
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Having to read or dress like other kids in order to fit in with other people. The idea that you have to be someone else in order to lower the expectations of others. You have to change so that people don’t see you as the person you are. Sometimes it is easier to be yourself when you are alone, but when you are with others you have to change so they won’t see your true self.

Source: Everything I Never Told You

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